What is Love?

               After a long time, the Amazing Little Girl has come back to life. She is currently being crushed with exams and pressure, but still, to de-stress herself, she has decided to write her mind out for you. <3

Just keep loving me! I will keep loving you! Everything else will fall into place.

            What is love? It is a very simple yet a very complicated question. There are many of you, who don't know what is love, even though you have a girlfriend or boyfriend, to whom you regularly say "I LOVE YOU". But if you don't mean it from the heart, then doesn't that mean, you are being fake? So, before you tell those 3 precious words, feel them from the bottom of your heart!

            According to me, love is something which makes you forget things. It is not just a cheesy dialogue, but you literally think about them the first thing every morning, and the last thing before you surrender yourself to sleep. You put them first at every point of life, their happiness means the world to you. Before you start any work, you think about them. All you want is their comfort, happiness even it means you have to go out of the way yourself. 

And do you guys know what makes you do it? The want of getting a "THANK YOU" or "YOU ARE THE BEST" from that one person. 

You want to hold that person tightly in your arms, and wish that every morning you see their face first, hear their voice first, to hold each other and sleep every night, this is what LOVE is. It isn't just about giving gifts, going on dates, or just the guy spending money. There is no such rule. What I feel, both the guy and the girl should take turn to pay on dates. They can share. But it's not really about money. It's about making someone feel special, to make that person smile. That's all that matters. Your efforts prove your feelings.

There are couples, who have broken up, maybe because they realized late that their relationship has no future. Some have broken up, because they aren't brave enough to follow the path filled with difficulties, just to be with the person they love. Some have realized, they aren't meant to be together, or also that they deserve someone better. Almost every single person in this world, has a crush, or a person they care about, or a person with whom they imagine their future with. But just like years, the dreams, people and relationships change. But still they are living. Living through all these storms and sufferings with a hope that one day. they will be happy. To give up on LOVE is not an option. Hope is what keeps us alive, keeps the world alive.

But you can really choose how many of them you allow to hurt you. At one point, you should stop searching, and wait. Wait patiently for them to come searching for you. Because, remember, since you were born, there is someone who is born for you. And you just have to wait for the time you meet.  

There are many people in this world, who never get back the love that they give. What I mean is the love that they feel is "ONE-SIDED"! The person you love, don't love you back. It is common, isn't it? But it gives you the most pain. To see that person happy makes you happy, but the reason is not you, this fact shatters you. They are happy with somebody else, what else can be more painful to you? But remember, love never fails. One day, your love will make them come to you, or even come back. If what you feel for them is true, then wait for them. If they don't, then realize one thing, they aren't worth your feelings. Move on, even if it is difficult. Because at one point of life, you should realize your worth too.

Love is an amazing feeling in itself. You become happy just by seeing them, you blush every time they smile at you. Sometimes, it's not about being happy with them together. It is about having someone you care about. 

Loving someone without expectations requires a lot of strength. And if you have that strength, you can bear any pain. Just be happy that you fell in love. There are many people who never fall in love, they miss out on this amazing feeling. Never regret that you loved. Never be sad that you didn't get to be together. Just be happy that God has gifted you with this feeling, and also the pain that comes with it.