My 21 days challenge

Hey folks, so from today onwards, I am starting my 21 days challenge powered by one of the youngest but very influential page on Instagram- Inner Goddess Academy. And what is it you ask! Well, it has been long since I wrote a blog post. I miss it terribly and now when I think about it, I kind of started wasting my time on things that are mere and of least importance in my life.


I post regularly on Instagram, true, but that's probably writing for just 5 minutes and doesn't really give me any satisfaction.
Writing holds a deeper meaning for me. People listen to music, read books to relieve stress. I write. Yes, writing is stress-reliever. Writing gives me the energy to move forward with my life, to accept the pain I fell sometimes, helps me let go of any grudges I might hold against anyone and also sets my soul free.

Just trying to get hold of my writing habit back into my life, so that I can tick one the wishes on my bucket list. I might not have much of audience yet, but with hard work, things change. 

So see you guys every day, from now on!!!

PS: Visit the website of Inner Goddess Academy at www.innergoddess.in <3

Abuse against Women

Hello everyone. There is never a doubt in my mind when I started to write about this topic. Isn't it so obvious? Every day, I hear something so horrid that it shakes my inner core. It makes me tremble and feel threatened, what if the same thing happens to me? When you marry a person, whether arranged or love, you only know the person the way he wants you to know, isn't it?

I really wonder, how a person can be this heartless, to beat up his own wife or girlfriend, or even think about hurting a woman. Does he never think about what his mother would have felt if his father treated her that way?

I took up this topic on a special request from one of my followers, having the lovely name, Monica. She reached out to me and talked to me about how she loved a guy who used to hit her. I was disappointed to know that even though he treated her that way, she still wanted him to stay because she wanted and needed him in her life. And guess what the guy thought? He thought he can do whatever he wants to her and she would still stay. Talk about the extent of taking a person for granted. Finally, she stood up for herself and left him. But her sufferings did not end there. As she had many guy friends and now no way the guy could torture her physically, he started calling her prostitute in public, when she is out with her friends. How much crueler can the world get?

Being an Indian, where I think is a Land of God, humanity is almost at zero. Abuse is not always physical. Sometimes, without even knowing, you abuse a person. That is unintentional abuse. However, there are few people who like to call a person with names in public, to humiliate a person, to make them feel miserable but also to gain some sense of authority. This is normally seen in people who try to control things, but when the situation turns against them, to satisfy their ego, they go about doing these horrific, meaningless activities.

I personally have been a victim of such comments, prank calls, fake accounts, etc. All these experiences actually make you hate the world, but once you have moved on, it gives you a sense of power. Once you let it go, you will learn to love yourself better, knowing that you are beautiful, no matter what.

What I mentioned here might seem very little of value to you, but to those who have faced this, it feels the world to know that there are thousands who share the same fate, and sometimes, sometimes, it helps him/her to regain the strength they had lost.  

#13ReasonsWhy 'Cause you never know what your one smile can do to change a person's life! <3

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Life's Decisions

When we were kids, we just couldn't wait to grow up, wear makeup like our moms or ride bikes like our dads. We could never have imagined the hell we would come to be in once we did grow up, did we? 

Life is full of irony. When we were carefree, we wanted to grow up. Once we did, all we want now is to go back to our childhood. It is human tendency to want the things we can't have. 

Growing up is a tricky business. You don't know what is good and right for you. And that is why we are blessed with parents. They guide us through all our endeavors and help us in not making any mistakes. But when did a child learn without falling down? Our parents tend to forget that and start to dominate our life decisions thinking they know whats best and most of the time, they are right. But sometimes, we may settle for what is good for us than actually finding the best we deserved. 

I will never say parents are wrong, no they never are, They always have our best interest in their minds. It is just that, sometimes they become too confident that they know what is really BEST for their children and refuse to accept the fact that they might be wrong. Because let's face it, we are adults and so are they.

Guidance of our parents will always act as a tutorial to progress further. However, rest of the road only you have to walk.

So next time when you face a disagreement with your parents, be considerate of their feelings and try to get through to them slowly and calmly, instead of hitting each other with cruel words.

Good day!

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Suicide is not an Option

How many times have you felt like giving up? Giving up on life that so preciously your parents took months to get you? You feel it is the only option, isn't it? No, it is not.

No matter how tough and rough life gets, there is always a ray of hope, guiding you. Life makes you go through many ups and downs, only to make you better, stronger and to prepare you for a challenge of a lifetime, which will change your life. But what do you do? You finish your life before you can even get to that one golden opportunity.

No, suicide is not an option. It is wrong. Not because you don't have rights to do whatever you want with your life, but because you are going to miss the most important part you are destined for.

Think. Calmly. Keep all your trouble aside for just a few minutes and think. Imagine you are gone from this world but you have come back to pay one last visit to all your loved ones. What will you see? Your mother hugging your lifeless body and crying hopelessly. She hasn't had food for several days and all she can think about is how much she loved you but that wasn't enough for you to stay alive. You will see your dad, not crying, thinking about how to pay you, last respects, but then when you visit him at night, you see him crying profusely, burying his face in a pillow. It will be the first and last time you would have seen him cry. It will kill you to know that you are the reason for all these tears and pain. Your brother and sister, sitting in one corner, with your photo in their hand, not saying a word.

Now tell me, is it worth it? Were all your troubles, caused by some bunch of strangers, worth enough all the pain your one action has caused to your loved ones? NO. Then why?

Let's not get driven by some rash feeling or anger take away this wonderful gift God has given you.

Remember, "Your mother did not carry you in her womb for nine months, suffered all the pain giving birth to you just to see you kill yourself."

If not for you, at least for them, STOP.

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Passion & Happiness

Hola Amigos everyone.

Let's be different today. Let’s be practical and talk practically. No romance novel or frictional concepts today, you guys know as I normally write. Let’s talk about our passion and happiness.

Being a blog writer or as a matter of fact, any social platform content creator is very difficult. You have to come up with new content every day. The only thing you think about is content and how else you can entertain your viewers.

But guess what, it never gets boring. There is always something that drives us to achieve our target. That is what is passion. The one thing that keeps us going, keeps us motivated and inspired, feeds ideas in our brain, that is passion. It's not something that we can train ourselves to do. It is something that comes from within.

When you do something you like doing, it fuels your passion. Passion when fueled, it produces happiness. These two are directly proportional to each other.

However, the path to that happiness isn’t really that easy. People criticise depending on what they think is right and considering you completely wrong. There was one instance when someone commented on my writings as “She writes like a 5yr old writing an essay” which made me so mad that time. But eventually, when I looked through, I realized, it wasn’t completely false either.

Writing about romance or love is something that a teen girl would write. I agree. I am still one. :p Probably because I am hopelessly romantic, I write so much about love. But guess what, I love writing on Love. It is my favorite topic and it will continue to be. Sometimes in life, you should trust your own heart and keep going, regardless of what otherwise anyone else might have to offer.  

Now I have branched out to other topics as well, like something motivational or for a social cause, but that will never refrain me from writing about the one thing that I love the most: LOVE.

So there goes my understanding of Passion and Happiness. 

What’s yours?

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Fake Smiles

Every day, every moment,

During the day,

When the sun shines bright;

There is someone who smiles, to cover up their pain. 

They are sweet and strong and lovable, 

But they break, 

Every night, 

Tears keep flowing.

Keeping the shattered pieces of their heart, 

Safe, and sound, so that, 

Someday, 

Someone, 

Will come and help them fix it.  

~Amazing Little Girl (writing a random thought <3 )

I want to be young again

One morning as I open my eyes,

I see the sun shining brightly in the sky.

So rejuvenating it felt but my body was in pain,

Made me think, how it would feel to be young again.

The world would look brighter,

My body would feel lighter!

My jeans wouldn’t have been tighter,

And I could again be a fighter!

My belly, so irritating, would vanish!

The works would make me less famish.

My looks would become more intimidating

Then I would restart my season of dating!

Again lavish would become my days,

Because I believe in what Shakespeare says,
Love looks with the eyes, not with mind,
And thus the winged Cupid is blind.
But all that I think goes in vain,
I will never be young again.
Because we are tied to the Time's chain,
To be born and then to have lain.

~Amazing Little Girl

Losses

I suddenly had this thought today, and I found no other better place than my blog to share this with all of you. Today, is the day after the BIG, HYPED, Valentine's Day. Today is 15th February. 

But I am not here to write about love. I am here to talk about Loss.

There are so many people who have left your lives, some were good and other went with bitter goodbyes. Few of them who were so close to you 1 year back, now don't exist besides you. They left, you accepted, you moved on. But suddenly, you reminisce about how this particular day was, 1 year back. It feels so real that suddenly, you can't believe they left you. Suddenly you would just want to run back to them, seeking their presence back in your life.

Let's say, you succeeded. Then what? What happened to you the first time, happens all over again. You get hurt, they leave you, again.

So tell me, was it worth? Worth all the hurts and pains and tears?

For all of you who are trying to make the same mistake, never go seeking for people's presence in your life. If they stay, cherish them. If they leave, let them go. If they come back, accept them once, but beware, trusting them again blindly might prove disastrous. Observe and step forward. Never fall prey to the same trap twice.

Giving people second chances is fair, it only becomes unfair when you lose count of how many second chances you have given to a person. 

~Amazing Little Girl

Love that Fades Away

We are born for the love...

Messenger of Love, we are Dove!

Yet we learn to love new every day,

We should be well experienced then, as I say!

Only for Love, pain is the price we pay!

We lose the patience to wait...

But what we lose is just faith!

We become too selfish to let go...

Unconditional love is what we need 

Being away, yet keep holding, is the love's seed!

To fade is what for, it was made!

Mine will never, because its true...

Yours will, as it is my fruit for loving you...

But when this love, fades away...

To misunderstand is what we all know!

But this love, shall one day, fade...

                                 

~From a Shattered Heart... (The Amazing Little Girl )

The Glowing Moon

She wished to be there, high up in the sky

Among millions of stars, that one glowing moon!

But she stopped and thought, Cuz her heart was dry, 

Was it too big to wish for too soon?

Her heart skipped a beat, Cuz the answer was no...

She had to prepare, for the storm accompanied the snow.

Her heart was calm and her eyes on fire,

She knew she had to fulfill her heart's desire.

Off she went, raging across the sea,

She had to find her destiny

Cutting through the howling winds and showers,

Cuz she wasn't meant to be adorned with the flowers.

People mocked, people hurt her pride

She is a girl, they said, and she must be a bride!

People looked at her and said, “Oh, she is not strong”,

But she smiled and replied, “I am here to prove you wrong!”

She was a warrior, she knew, not a princess,

Armor of determination, mind never a mess.

Her sword was her will, her hands not shivering,

She brawled, she thrived, focus not quivering.

At last, she won her battle, the little girl overjoyed

The world was in awe, she was a complete wonder.

She won, like a real hero, her haters annoyed

She ruled the sky, glowing more than any other.

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Freshworks

Well well, what can I say? I couldn't stop myself from picking this as a topic for my blog and writing all about this amazing company that I fortunately got placed in and interning in as well. And the first thing I wanted to say to everyone is that this company is my Dream Company for a reason. It was love-at-first-sight feeling when I came to Freshworks for attending a Workshop. And that's when I knew, we were just meant to be. And guess what, I wasn't wrong, it really is a Fantabulously-Fantastic Company and we are really hitting it off! XD :D

This company has just been 7 years old, and it has shown an exponential growth in the market. It started with its first product, "Freshdesk", as it was formerly known, which was recently renamed as "Freshworks", to owning 7 products presently, with the latest three products launched in the last 6 months. 

The most amazing thing about this company is that it encourages employees to play with their strengths, their passion, their love. Even if you are from the Mechanical background with a passion for coding, this is a perfect place for you. You get what you love so that it doesn't become an everyday-same-routine job; instead, it becomes love. It is the best place to learn, to grow and to realize your interest. 

The second best thing is the office. It is beautifully decorated with mosaics, paintings, abstracts and random things. With a mini golf area, table tennis dedicated chamber and foosball cabin, from swings to slides, this office is filled with fun. Also, the work culture is brilliant. Timings are quite flexible and once you have gained the trust of the company, you are on your own clock to tackle the hurdles in your job. And the most significant aspect is that you learn from your mistakes.

From fun-filled events to making us love the job, from keeping us stress-free to giving us amazing food, Freshworks is one of the best companies to join in. Neither will you get dragged to office by time, nor will you ever complain to your friend saying you don't like going to work. Let's face it, Freshworks employees make all employees of other companies feel jealous. And what is the secret behind it? We are a part of an amazing family and it never feels bad to be a part of one.



PS: Who am I kidding? The first best thing is the OFFICE and the FOOD! :D

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Rhythm of heart beats

RHYTHM OF HEARTBEATS

There is she went, pretty all over

Rivals were all over, she knew,

All eyes of girls turned to jealousy

But Oh, Darling did she know?

In the crowd, was He, standing,

Staring, at her eyes, frozen to a place

She turned, and suddenly he came into view,

She froze too, everything else disappeared,

The world had seemed to have stopped 

To the rhythm of their heartbeats!

Like a movie, it would seem, but my dear,

From where do you think Directors get these ideas?

~ Amazing Little Girl

Friendship

Amazing Little Girl is back. This time she wants to talk about friendship. So what does the word "FRIENDSHIP" mean to us? 

I thought friendship meant supporting each other no matter what. Does it also mean you need to share everything about your lives, right? Sometimes, we forget what actually the meaning of this relationship. Nowadays, only if you share everything about your life, people count you as friends. Else, they say, you have grown distant. 

Maybe, I don't feel like sharing, maybe I feel insecure, about sharing my personal stuff with others. What if I am introvert? 

But as a friend, don't you think you should understand? 

People tag someone as their best friend or soulmate and make fun of them or bitch about them behind their backs. All these things make us introvert, forces us into isolation. We start feeling that it's better to be your own Best Friend.

Then, where is friendship?

Every person has boundaries. Every person has a right to decide what he or she wants to share. 

Is this what friendship is all about?

Right now, I am still searching for an answer.

Lucky are those guys who move in gangs, have amazing roommates, have best friends to talk to.

Oh yes, since I write a post regarding this, it isn't to say I am sad or I don't have friends. Instead, this is simply to ask everyone out there, WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP?

Can't a friend be selfless? Can't they just be there when we need them? Or like coming home with a perk and asking how we have been lately, even though we haven't talked in a while?

Do friendships like this still exist?

Friendship can never be measured by the number of minutes you speak, or how many selfies you clicked, neither by the amount of personal information you have shared. Friendship is in memories, in all the laughter and tears that comprise the story. Though it's true, people might change, but pictures and memories won't, we can always hope we don't change!

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Amazing Little Girl

A reservoir of souls and emotions! 

Quotes and stories that relates to a little girl who is growing up, battling the Storms in her life. She writes because she is lonely and there is nobody she could talk to. 

Her pen is her tongue and paper, a friend. The ink bleeds as her pen sheds her tears on the shoulder of her friend.

Yes, in life we need friends, somebody we can share our thoughts thoughts share our thoughts thoughts with, somebody who would listen. 

But life is unfair. You have to deal with what your life gives you or takes away away away! 

Accept and pain reduces. 

Accept and walking becomes easier! Accept and you are free! 

~Amazing little girl

Solitude

Solitude! 

The word that defines many of us. Solitude is easy, you don't have to deal with any pain deal have to deal with any pain deal with any pain or any pain causing people, you are your own best friend best friend best friend you are your own secret keeper. You are independent and free. You love yourself. You don't need anybody to complete you. 

In life all that is important is, for you to be you, for you to accept yourself, to be the best version of yourself. 

And if you get a person who is ready to ready to accept you for who you are are you are are, who loves you no matter your flaws, who pursues you like his own dream, who understands you; that's all you will will ever need to make your life complete! Remember only if you are complete or your whole complete or your whole yourself, only then you can accept other people, completely. Don't expect without making an effort.

~Amazing little girl

Live your Dream

Who are parents? Our support for pillars, right? They give us morals and values in our life, help us grow up and become successful in life! But what if they become selfish? What if for them what they want blinds them to such an extent that they can't see their item child suffering? Is it right? Is it morale? Is it how its supposed to be?

I don't know!

In India, there is a general mentality that a boy or a girl had only two career options: Doctor and Engineering! What if your child doesn't want to become either of those? What if they are not good at studies and they have other talents which if pursued as career, they can reach extreme heights???

There are so many engineers sitting unemployed, having no idea what they would do with their life. Because that's our education system's boon. We study, memorize and then forget! What if that's what a person can't do? Is it wrong for him or her to oppose the idea of the CHOICE? The CHOICE of engineer or doctor?

What if there is a singer in them, or a dancer, a director or a photographer? What if they cook well? What if their passion can make them successful but all they need is a little support!
Can the parents agree to give that support? Or do they want their children to bear the burden of their wishes and selfish desires for their entire life and finally dying with a REGRET! Is that what you want?

I want to ask those parents, what is more important, your selfish desires burdening your child or their happiness? Which weighs more in your measure machine of priority? If it's the latter, then support your children to becoming what they want! And if it's the former, then it's time you ask this question to yourself, "Do I deserve to be a parent?"