Abuse against Women

Hello everyone. There is never a doubt in my mind when I started to write about this topic. Isn't it so obvious? Every day, I hear something so horrid that it shakes my inner core. It makes me tremble and feel threatened, what if the same thing happens to me? When you marry a person, whether arranged or love, you only know the person the way he wants you to know, isn't it?

I really wonder, how a person can be this heartless, to beat up his own wife or girlfriend, or even think about hurting a woman. Does he never think about what his mother would have felt if his father treated her that way?

I took up this topic on a special request from one of my followers, having the lovely name, Monica. She reached out to me and talked to me about how she loved a guy who used to hit her. I was disappointed to know that even though he treated her that way, she still wanted him to stay because she wanted and needed him in her life. And guess what the guy thought? He thought he can do whatever he wants to her and she would still stay. Talk about the extent of taking a person for granted. Finally, she stood up for herself and left him. But her sufferings did not end there. As she had many guy friends and now no way the guy could torture her physically, he started calling her prostitute in public, when she is out with her friends. How much crueler can the world get?

Being an Indian, where I think is a Land of God, humanity is almost at zero. Abuse is not always physical. Sometimes, without even knowing, you abuse a person. That is unintentional abuse. However, there are few people who like to call a person with names in public, to humiliate a person, to make them feel miserable but also to gain some sense of authority. This is normally seen in people who try to control things, but when the situation turns against them, to satisfy their ego, they go about doing these horrific, meaningless activities.

I personally have been a victim of such comments, prank calls, fake accounts, etc. All these experiences actually make you hate the world, but once you have moved on, it gives you a sense of power. Once you let it go, you will learn to love yourself better, knowing that you are beautiful, no matter what.

What I mentioned here might seem very little of value to you, but to those who have faced this, it feels the world to know that there are thousands who share the same fate, and sometimes, sometimes, it helps him/her to regain the strength they had lost.  

#13ReasonsWhy 'Cause you never know what your one smile can do to change a person's life! <3

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Losses

I suddenly had this thought today, and I found no other better place than my blog to share this with all of you. Today, is the day after the BIG, HYPED, Valentine's Day. Today is 15th February. 

But I am not here to write about love. I am here to talk about Loss.

There are so many people who have left your lives, some were good and other went with bitter goodbyes. Few of them who were so close to you 1 year back, now don't exist besides you. They left, you accepted, you moved on. But suddenly, you reminisce about how this particular day was, 1 year back. It feels so real that suddenly, you can't believe they left you. Suddenly you would just want to run back to them, seeking their presence back in your life.

Let's say, you succeeded. Then what? What happened to you the first time, happens all over again. You get hurt, they leave you, again.

So tell me, was it worth? Worth all the hurts and pains and tears?

For all of you who are trying to make the same mistake, never go seeking for people's presence in your life. If they stay, cherish them. If they leave, let them go. If they come back, accept them once, but beware, trusting them again blindly might prove disastrous. Observe and step forward. Never fall prey to the same trap twice.

Giving people second chances is fair, it only becomes unfair when you lose count of how many second chances you have given to a person. 

~Amazing Little Girl

Love that Fades Away

We are born for the love...

Messenger of Love, we are Dove!

Yet we learn to love new every day,

We should be well experienced then, as I say!

Only for Love, pain is the price we pay!

We lose the patience to wait...

But what we lose is just faith!

We become too selfish to let go...

Unconditional love is what we need 

Being away, yet keep holding, is the love's seed!

To fade is what for, it was made!

Mine will never, because its true...

Yours will, as it is my fruit for loving you...

But when this love, fades away...

To misunderstand is what we all know!

But this love, shall one day, fade...

                                 

~From a Shattered Heart... (The Amazing Little Girl )

The Glowing Moon

She wished to be there, high up in the sky

Among millions of stars, that one glowing moon!

But she stopped and thought, Cuz her heart was dry, 

Was it too big to wish for too soon?

Her heart skipped a beat, Cuz the answer was no...

She had to prepare, for the storm accompanied the snow.

Her heart was calm and her eyes on fire,

She knew she had to fulfill her heart's desire.

Off she went, raging across the sea,

She had to find her destiny

Cutting through the howling winds and showers,

Cuz she wasn't meant to be adorned with the flowers.

People mocked, people hurt her pride

She is a girl, they said, and she must be a bride!

People looked at her and said, “Oh, she is not strong”,

But she smiled and replied, “I am here to prove you wrong!”

She was a warrior, she knew, not a princess,

Armor of determination, mind never a mess.

Her sword was her will, her hands not shivering,

She brawled, she thrived, focus not quivering.

At last, she won her battle, the little girl overjoyed

The world was in awe, she was a complete wonder.

She won, like a real hero, her haters annoyed

She ruled the sky, glowing more than any other.

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Friendship

Amazing Little Girl is back. This time she wants to talk about friendship. So what does the word "FRIENDSHIP" mean to us? 

I thought friendship meant supporting each other no matter what. Does it also mean you need to share everything about your lives, right? Sometimes, we forget what actually the meaning of this relationship. Nowadays, only if you share everything about your life, people count you as friends. Else, they say, you have grown distant. 

Maybe, I don't feel like sharing, maybe I feel insecure, about sharing my personal stuff with others. What if I am introvert? 

But as a friend, don't you think you should understand? 

People tag someone as their best friend or soulmate and make fun of them or bitch about them behind their backs. All these things make us introvert, forces us into isolation. We start feeling that it's better to be your own Best Friend.

Then, where is friendship?

Every person has boundaries. Every person has a right to decide what he or she wants to share. 

Is this what friendship is all about?

Right now, I am still searching for an answer.

Lucky are those guys who move in gangs, have amazing roommates, have best friends to talk to.

Oh yes, since I write a post regarding this, it isn't to say I am sad or I don't have friends. Instead, this is simply to ask everyone out there, WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP?

Can't a friend be selfless? Can't they just be there when we need them? Or like coming home with a perk and asking how we have been lately, even though we haven't talked in a while?

Do friendships like this still exist?

Friendship can never be measured by the number of minutes you speak, or how many selfies you clicked, neither by the amount of personal information you have shared. Friendship is in memories, in all the laughter and tears that comprise the story. Though it's true, people might change, but pictures and memories won't, we can always hope we don't change!

~Amazing Little Girl <3

Amazing Little Girl

A reservoir of souls and emotions! 

Quotes and stories that relates to a little girl who is growing up, battling the Storms in her life. She writes because she is lonely and there is nobody she could talk to. 

Her pen is her tongue and paper, a friend. The ink bleeds as her pen sheds her tears on the shoulder of her friend.

Yes, in life we need friends, somebody we can share our thoughts thoughts share our thoughts thoughts with, somebody who would listen. 

But life is unfair. You have to deal with what your life gives you or takes away away away! 

Accept and pain reduces. 

Accept and walking becomes easier! Accept and you are free! 

~Amazing little girl

Solitude

Solitude! 

The word that defines many of us. Solitude is easy, you don't have to deal with any pain deal have to deal with any pain deal with any pain or any pain causing people, you are your own best friend best friend best friend you are your own secret keeper. You are independent and free. You love yourself. You don't need anybody to complete you. 

In life all that is important is, for you to be you, for you to accept yourself, to be the best version of yourself. 

And if you get a person who is ready to ready to accept you for who you are are you are are, who loves you no matter your flaws, who pursues you like his own dream, who understands you; that's all you will will ever need to make your life complete! Remember only if you are complete or your whole complete or your whole yourself, only then you can accept other people, completely. Don't expect without making an effort.

~Amazing little girl