Losses

I suddenly had this thought today, and I found no other better place than my blog to share this with all of you. Today, is the day after the BIG, HYPED, Valentine's Day. Today is 15th February. 

But I am not here to write about love. I am here to talk about Loss.

There are so many people who have left your lives, some were good and other went with bitter goodbyes. Few of them who were so close to you 1 year back, now don't exist besides you. They left, you accepted, you moved on. But suddenly, you reminisce about how this particular day was, 1 year back. It feels so real that suddenly, you can't believe they left you. Suddenly you would just want to run back to them, seeking their presence back in your life.

Let's say, you succeeded. Then what? What happened to you the first time, happens all over again. You get hurt, they leave you, again.

So tell me, was it worth? Worth all the hurts and pains and tears?

For all of you who are trying to make the same mistake, never go seeking for people's presence in your life. If they stay, cherish them. If they leave, let them go. If they come back, accept them once, but beware, trusting them again blindly might prove disastrous. Observe and step forward. Never fall prey to the same trap twice.

Giving people second chances is fair, it only becomes unfair when you lose count of how many second chances you have given to a person. 

~Amazing Little Girl

Friendship

Amazing Little Girl is back. This time she wants to talk about friendship. So what does the word "FRIENDSHIP" mean to us? 

I thought friendship meant supporting each other no matter what. Does it also mean you need to share everything about your lives, right? Sometimes, we forget what actually the meaning of this relationship. Nowadays, only if you share everything about your life, people count you as friends. Else, they say, you have grown distant. 

Maybe, I don't feel like sharing, maybe I feel insecure, about sharing my personal stuff with others. What if I am introvert? 

But as a friend, don't you think you should understand? 

People tag someone as their best friend or soulmate and make fun of them or bitch about them behind their backs. All these things make us introvert, forces us into isolation. We start feeling that it's better to be your own Best Friend.

Then, where is friendship?

Every person has boundaries. Every person has a right to decide what he or she wants to share. 

Is this what friendship is all about?

Right now, I am still searching for an answer.

Lucky are those guys who move in gangs, have amazing roommates, have best friends to talk to.

Oh yes, since I write a post regarding this, it isn't to say I am sad or I don't have friends. Instead, this is simply to ask everyone out there, WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP?

Can't a friend be selfless? Can't they just be there when we need them? Or like coming home with a perk and asking how we have been lately, even though we haven't talked in a while?

Do friendships like this still exist?

Friendship can never be measured by the number of minutes you speak, or how many selfies you clicked, neither by the amount of personal information you have shared. Friendship is in memories, in all the laughter and tears that comprise the story. Though it's true, people might change, but pictures and memories won't, we can always hope we don't change!

~Amazing Little Girl <3